SE Goat Event

On June 7th, we took a group of young people and foster families out for the day to visit Buttercups Goat Sanctuary. Buttercups is a large sanctuary near Maidstone in Kent for goats who need a safe and caring home. It is the only rescue facility just for goats in the whole of the UK.…

What is parent and child fostering?

Thinking back, for those of us that can recall those early days of parenthood will remember one thing very clearly – that we often did not know exactly what we were doing, but we were trying our very best. For many new parents, especially those without strong, positive support networks or good examples of parenting…

I’m confused…what’s the difference?

We get this question all the time. People who feel called to care for children but aren’t quite sure of the different types of care. Honestly, it can feel like a maze of terms, so let’s break it down. Here is a quick guide to help you make sense of it all: Fostering This one’s…

Men In Fostering – Father’s Day Reflections

Father’s Day is a time often associated with cards, gifts, and moments of celebration. But behind the tradition and social media posts lies a deeper, more meaningful opportunity, especially in the world of fostering. Society has traditionally placed the weight of childcare on women, while men have often been cast in supporting or peripheral roles.…

Men In Fostering – So Much To Offer

We asked our male foster carers what they love about fostering and why positive male representation as carers is important to them. David and Vinay, based in the north-west of England, shared the following with us: Establishing males as caring and non-threatening when young people may have experienced the opposite of this The sad fact…

What Do We Mean By Matching In Fostering?

When people first express interest in becoming foster carers, one of the frequent questions is: “How do we choose which child we will get?” The answer lies in a process called matching. What is Matching? Matching is the process of carefully considering how well a potential foster carer can meet the specific needs of a…

Responding to Rude or Unkind Language in Children

When your child’s language comes off as unfriendly, rude, or unkind, it’s important to avoid labelling them with phrases like, “You are so rude!” There are many reasons a child might behave in a way that seems disrespectful. For one, they may not realize how their behaviour is coming across – and this can happen…

Faith in Fostering

Being from a faith background is not an issue in fostering. What matters most is your ability to provide a stable and caring home for a child or young person in a genuinely supportive and non-judgmental way. We welcome enquiries from individuals of all faiths who are committed to fostering. Children from a variety of…

Essential Welcome For A Foster Child

When a child or young person is placed with a foster family, there are many things to consider, however the most important will be to understand their emotional landscape. What might they need to feel welcome, safe, cared for, as well as creating a positive bridge between family home and foster home? When a child…